Was it wrong to be a woman who is nice and caring? Why men dump women who being nice and caring? It is definitely not wrong to be nice but sometimes men just take things for granted and have often neglected of how the woman is feeling. This kind of problem does not only exist in women but men as well. You expected to gain their respect and receive unconditional love that you deserve but why is he still dumping you when you are trying very hard to be the woman they love?
There can be more than 101 reasons why men dump women. All I can say when men dump women, the reasons are always interconnected with one another like communication and feelings etc.
- Too needy and not independent enough If a woman is relying too much on a man and is unable to decide or do minor things properly when the man is not around is showing too much neediness. Women whom belong to this category tend to be very emotional and sensitive. They get paranoid easily when the man is not around by her side and they are always the one apologizing and giving in as they are always that the man they love get angry and leave them. When there is no balance between a couple, any of the party who is on the upper hand tends to take things for granted.
- Too demanding A woman who is too overpowering tend to be someone who got very bad temper. They want to be in control of almost everything, giving the man no freedom and space to do their things freely. The woman seems to became the "tigress" at home and communication flow became just like "reporting to madam". When the man could not find the warmth and love from their woman, they may choose to find another "love" which is infidelity outside.
- Lack or No communication Love will fade if communication became lesser in a relationship. Communication breakdown also mean not being able to understand how the other party is doing or feeling. This can lead to quarrels and misunderstandings, when this problem get serious, more problems came such as infidelity as well.
- Commitment When you are together with the man for a few months, you tried to stress the man on commitments or marriage. The man may just dump the woman if they are not ready. On the other hand, when both of you are progressing healthily and seriously for a period of time. The process of talking marriage and commitments became very natural.
- FlingsSometimes, men does not need any reasons to dump women. Men just dump women when they have enough fun. Guys who belong to this category are mostly flirts and they are not serious at all. This kind of man will not commit anything until they really found their true love. Instead of harping onto the relationship, I would advise you to leave that man instead.
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Sep 24, 2009
Why Online Dating is so Tough for Men
Online russian dating has become increasingly popular over the past several years. Every year millions of men turn to internet russian dating in an effort to meet more women without risking face-to-face rejection. Unfortunately, internet russian dating doesnt work very well for most men because the odds are so heavily against them. According to a November, 2003 study by Jupiter Research, men are four times more likely than women to subscribe to an online russian dating site and twice as likely to browse, post, or respond to a profile. Obviously, those odds are stacked strongly in favor of the women. When it comes to internet russian dating, to paraphrase James Brown, its a womans world. This is quite a contrast from the off-line world, where attractive women are not approached nearly as often as men might think. While doing research for my book, Take Action: How to Meet Women and Get Dates, I surveyed over fifty single women in their twenties or thirties about being approached by men and their views on being hit on and russian dating in general. The most striking finding from the survey was that most women very clearly want men to be more daring about approaching them. In response to the question, should men be more bold in approaching women, 82% responded yes. With a lot of effort and time, online russian dating can work for some men but it is not easy. You will probably have more success with internet russian dating by viewing it as a supplement to other methods of meeting women, instead of relying on it as your sole method. Also, use one of the larger services like match.com. You will need to use a shotgun approach and will therefore want to make sure you are in as target-rich an environment as possible. But if you really want to meet and date a lot of women you will probably need to do it the old fashioned way. Approach women in person. As the old saying goes, the more things change the more things stay the same. When it comes to meeting women, a confident man who can approach a beautiful woman and strike up a conversation with her will always do better than the 99% of men who cannot. Technology might change a lot, but it will never change that.
Will You Survive a Relationship Breakdown
Relationships connect us in this world with each other. We have many kinds of relationships-parental, sibling, friends, professional and love. We go through many phases in all these relationships. Ups and downs are part of our life and our relationships. Most of us can bear break down in most of the above relationships except those of love. Why? Who will survive a breakdown in romantic relationship and who will get shattered? Let us discuss.The higher the attraction, the higher will be the shock. The closer you are, the break up will give you more shock. It is very simple equation. But let us remember that life is not made of equations and emotions do not behave mathematically. So it all boils down to personality. There are some who expect the relationship to break sooner or later. They are pessimists and call themselves practical. These people are never surprised if the relationship breaks. They may wonder about the reasons but will not suffer trauma.On the other extreme, we have some people who believe that they are made for each other and that the relationship, the loyalty and the faithfulness will last for the life and if possible beyond. This is the vulnerable class. If by bad fate, they are ditched by the partner, they will suffer very bad trauma. They will never believe that this could ever happen and all their life they will spend wondering how it happened. Their faith in their partner is absolute. They trust their partners most and for them the shock of the broken trust is unbearable. They need psychiatric help. Hopefully with professional help they may recover. But at times the trauma is uncontrollable. They lose their faith in life and everyone else. The betrayal kills their inner core and the will to carry on. If you are one such type, please go into any relationship with the awareness that your partner may not be as honest as he/she looks.Relationship is a beautiful feeling and a wonderful experience. One tends the relationship as one cares for a tender plant. One gives ones whole being to the relationship. The breakdown therefore becomes unbearable. Sometime I feel that the world is for people who are practical and never allow their heart to rule over their mind.
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